special

girls don't want to always be in a relationship. relationship stinks. yeah, i admit that it does. and not all of the girls want to be attached or committed to someone. sure, we fall pretty fast and pretty hard sometimes but it doesn't mean we want to be in a relationship.

here's the thing about feelings. sometimes, we just want to be appreciated and love. we want attention from a certain someone and most likely it would be the person we like. however, that does not require someone to be in a relationship. you don't need to be in relationship to show that you love someone or that he/she is special to you.

sometimes girls just wanna be sure that they are special to that one guy. sure, maybe guys have hard time in committing but it doesn't mean you can't show the some affection to the girl. if she really means something to you but you're still not ready to be in a relationship, at least make her feel that she's different from any other girl friends. girls just need to know that it's worth to be waiting or to be hoping. we are easier in showing affection and care since it is our nature to over care and over think stuffs. and not to forget to fall hard for a guy. =,= but guys, you don't want to be missing the person you could actually be with. you don't wanna lose her just because she chose another guy.

if you're afraid of committing, that's fine. but if you're afraid to confess, then that's your problem. you'll lose an awful lot. but believe me, there's nothing wrong with showing some affection to that one special girl. :) i suppose this goes to the girls too. if the person is special to you, make them know. it's the least you can do. :)